The Winners So Far!

My mishmosh of guys on the go.. I have some REALLLL WINNERSSSS HERE!!!

Movie Set Guy.. Specs:

  • Divorced dad of two (girl and boy)
  • Lives with his in-laws.... yes, his ex's parents
    • going to be living with his friend
  • Works in the movie industry
    • if he doesn't find a project soon, he's going to go back to Taiwan for an indefinite time.. but... how about his kids? He says how crazy his ex is, but he's leaving the kids with her?
Movie Set Guy, I don't have time for all this drama, him and I determined that we will be penpals.

Volleyball Guy.. Specs:
  • Loves Volleyball, he coaches Team Canada U17, plays beach volleyball almost every morning at sunrise, and plays in tournaments
  • Works in ad agency, he's bi-coastal and he said that's one of the reasons why he swiped right on me (I am no longer bi-coastal)
  • Lives in King West
  • Has been diagnosed with ADHD
I was supposed to meet up with him on Tuesday, but who goes on a Tuesday date? So, I cancelled because for the last 6 weeks, I have been traveling every other weekend. I needed to go grocery shopping, but seriously, who goes on a date on a Tuesday? The day after, I asked him what he did the night before and he said he went on our date. He didn't tell me he made resos, if he had, I would've made more of an effort to go.  We rescheduled for Thursday, but this time he cancelled on me. He was going to a concert, but his boss send the tickets to the wrong person and he just ended up walking home. We ended up talking on the phone. We had a great conversation. 

Now... he has pretty much ghosted me because I don't want to see him on a weekday afternoon (even though he knows I work from my office). The nights I suggested we meet, he is going to a concert (of an artist he doesn't even like). Then he's going to LA for 20 days (I am going to UK). He keeps saying he does things with intention.. soo.. I guess because I am not making that great of an effort, he doesn't see that I am being serious about this. I told him how I book people months a head (because my calendar gets full) and he said he lives more spontaneously.. Well.... I guess we won't be meshing.. Or maybe he will contact me once he's back.. but not holding my breath. 

Where is Weedman/Gooseman? He's still around lol. 


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