Online Dating In The City

 I have been speaking with a guy whom we will call Snob, but I might change that that older Gym Guy. The way he talks is very reminiscent of Gym Guy and that’s probably why I can’t stop thinking about him.  Like Gym Guy, snob is very busy with his job and is constantly on the go. Is that their out when the date doesn’t go well? They have tattoos that I am not too fond of. Snob made a reference, insinuating that because I met him that my life would be better.  Similarities: they both wake up at 4am they think they can change the world, steps not too sure they are in the midst of writing a book they are not happy with where they are in life; working towards getting better - I guess that's a good thing think they can help me at times would say shit to make me feel dumb, but you can easily call them out on them, it's their communication sends me random pics - Gym guy sent me pics of him as a baby, shirtless pics; Snob sent me pics of a suspension for his car, shirtless pic, a...

 Not too sure what happened after date 3.. He was all of a sudden a lot busier.. didn't message as much. I sort of understood where he was coming from.. He doesn't trust his trainers so I guess he has taken on more clients, considering he charges $250/hour that goes straight to his pockets. We were supposed to go on date 4 on Thursday because on Friday, I was going to Chicago.... but he had messaged Thursday afternoon to tell me he's not in a condition to meet up and have a conversation.. and slowly.. the messages are far and in between... sus? We were still chatting here and there, since I lost bowling, I owed him a facial. I didn't want to take him to a $200 facial that I've been wanting to try and I didn't want to take him to a facial place where I didn't know their standards. So, I asked him if he wanted to go to a facial or see Tina Turner musical. He said definitely the musical. I went a head a purchased the tickets for $300 (both). But because of his ...