Why in 3s?

 As mentioned before one of my friend's, Kelly and her husband are doing online dating for me. They first started with Bumble, where they met, but had no luck. Now they moved onto Coffee Meets Bagel. They have been now transferred into my care.

The three potential suitors are 1. Tibetan Caterer 2. Downtown Start Up 3. Weird vibes; side note, when Crush Trainer told me he was going on a date this weekend, that crushed me!

It looks like I started to write this and I stopped. Since starting this couple of things.

Crush trainer didn't end up going on that date! YAY! BUT! Recently he had offered me to drive me to the airport for my business trip. He was going to come pick me up at 5 in the morning! YAY! I of course did that whole "no you don't have to", but I wasn't going to push back. So, it was set. The day of I message him at 5amET to let him know that I was ready and that I was waiting for him downstairs. He messages me back and said he was leaving the house now and asked if that was ok. I said, "well you're the one with the client. Are you going to make it on time?" He said that was the reason why he was running late. Me being the nice person was like "oh, if you don't need to see your client then you don't have to drive me" then he writes back, "I can really use the extra sleep"..................... WTF!!!!!!!!........... One thing I do not like is people who break their commitment. Maybe it's just me, but I don't offer my time or services if I am not going to follow through with it. Even if I had someone cancel on me, I would have still picked up the person because I SAID I WAS GOING TO! I am not bitchy enough for to force someone to do something especially knowing how his weeks have been going. BUT STILL. If you commit to something follow through! Also, he said when I get back he would buy me Starbucks.. I have been back for about 3 weeks, I am still waiting. My crush towards him is slowly fading, mainly cause there is no interest in his part, so this game is not fun. Have I told him how I feel? No. But I have given him and hinted enough times. 

Anyways, lets get to the three suitors Kelly and her husband found me.

1. Tibetan Caterer - this guy doesn't have any ambition in life. Which is a huge turn off for me. First I asked him as a chef what is his specialty, he said meats, Asian food, and pasta. *amber flag* Ummm.. My friend Kelly can make those dishes too, so I was not impressed by that. I then asked him what he wanted to do with his career, he said he didn't know if I had any ideas to let him know. Like DUDE WHAT THE FUCK?! I don't know you! Our conversations were pretty generic, I always ask people about travel, this guy hasn't travelled much, but whatever. I told him about the potential London trip I was supposed to go on for my nephew's Christening. He then asked me if I had sex? *red flag* I was said, yes, why does he ask? He said because I'm Christian. I told him. Christians have sex. I thought, what a weird thing. I blew past that, few days later he asked me what I was doing over the weekend. I told him I needed to catch up on my sleep. Since my trip, I have been super tried. He then was like, "oh so you're not inviting me over for drinks". Mind you, I have NEVER met this guy in person, I haven't spoken to him on the phone, I have not even FaceTimed with him and he's already inviting himself to my place?  I said, "why would I invite you to my place? I don't know you, you can be a serial killer" He said, "There are no Tibetan serial killers" I said, "not that we know of". He said, "I wouldn't hurt a fly". I said, "that's what serial killers would say". In multiple occasions, he sort of invited himself over to my place and alluded we would probably drink a bottle of wine each. *red flag* First of all why are you only coming to my place? Why are you not inviting me to your place? Also, why are we having a bottle of wine each? Why are we getting wasted on the first date? So what he can rape me in my own place? Anyways, I decided to ghost him, well to be fair when I decided to ghost him, I decided to ghost the other two. Then I thought I should be a better person, so I started talking to him again. But then he brought up sex AGAIN. *red flag* I asked him why he keeps bringing up sex and he said it's something to talk about. I said no, we have a million other things to talk about. Left it there and then ghosted him again!

2. Downtown Start Up - This guy was interesting, he lives downtown Toronto and has worked for start ups for the past 10 or 15 years, I forget. Him and I had decent conversations, he was cute. After watching the movie Shang-Chi, I told him on my bucket list I want to be a driver/fighting stunt person or pretty much be Akwafina's character. I asked him what's on his bucket list and he said he wanted to be a millionaire through Crypto. I said, "Should you have invested in BitCoin 10 years ago". He then pretty much bit my head off and said, "I said Crypto, not BitCoin". I was just like woah dude, I understand there are Cryptocurrencies coming out everyday.  Then I proceed to joke to lighten the mood and said, "with new technology in AI and crypto rising, I can see Terminator 2 Judgement Day happening" . The dude said I was pessimistic. The dude seriously needs to relax. This was around the time when I ghosted Tibetan Caterer, I decided to ghost this guy. But then I had that moment of, I should be a nice person, so when he messaged me I messaged him back. We texted like nothing happened. So getting to know someone, I just asked generic questions like what sort of music do you like? He said he liked all but country and EDM. Then I asked if he was a Biggie or a Tupac fan. He started tearing down Tupac, I said I was a Tupac fan because he was poetic. He said Nas was more of a poet. I was like whatever, I decided to by pass that. Then I asked him if he liked Mariah or Whitney..... he blew up at me again and said, "I can't have a serious conversation with you, you are comparing someone who made a difference with someone who is a pop artist". OMGGGGGGGGGGGG..... HOLD ME BACK because I was about to go off on him. I literally had to take a minute because I was going to go off. So, I messaged him back the next day and just said, "I am not looking to have a philosophical debate with you. I am just asking you these questions because these are artists that were always pinned against each other." He said, "True hip hop fans would say Biggie, and true R&B fans would say Whitney". This dude needed to chill. The only reason why I decided to talk to him again was because I thought even if things didn't work out. I would use him to scratch an item off my bucket list and that is to sleep with a black guy. But he is not work it!

3. Weird vibes -  I am not going to write much about this guy, except I had weird vibes from him. He took pictures of someone else's wedding. There was just something off about him. He also didn't vote during the last election, which is a huge turn off for me. He also had random stories of him going on hikes, either way he was boring. Also, I can't explain but I had a weird vibe from him. *red flag* Always trust your gut.

Onto my next three!