Date with Ditched for McDonalds

Since I ditched this guy for McDonalds, I felt like I was obligated to meet him this week. My lashes and nails were janky so I had to fix up before meeting him.

Profile Stats:
  • Works for a start up
  • White (based on picture)? It was a beach picture so he looked tanned
  • Hair
  • His profile picture was a topless beach picture
  • Lives in High Park
This is the types of guys Kelly would NEVER swipe right for. Our conversations never got really deep, our conversations were very service level. The way he speaks, I thought he was actually Crush Trainer to the point I was going to message Crush Trainer and say, "if you are fucking with me I am going to kill you!" But on the other hand, Crush Trainer doesn't have time to fuck around like that.

One thing I should have asked for is a more recent pictures. I remember a few years ago, I swiped right on a guy who I thought was a white male with reddish hair. Once we traded pictures it turned out I was being cat-fished and it was actually a middle aged Indian man. So imagine my surprise when the guy walks in and he looks Middle Eastern, turns out he is from Egypt. 

Reality Stats:
  • Egyptian
  • Doesn't drive
  • Bald
 I think he only swiped right on me because I am Korean. He lived in Korea for 5 years and just moved to Toronto a year ago. He seems like a nice guy, but there was no spark.

For this date, I got my lashes and nails did. But because it was Daylight Savings I woke up early and went to the gym, barre class, nails did, and date. I walked to the date and while walking to the date I realized when I was younger I would wear nice clothes and try to impress the guy. Yesterday I was just wearing jeans and a shawl, I probably actually looked like a bag lady. The date wasn't bad, but it was more effort than it was worth. Even just trying to get my ass there was a lot of work. 

**Update** this guy messaged me to let me know that we are better off debating burger joints than dating. I told him I agreed. What a grown up way to end a relationship.

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