Online Dating In The City

Sooo.. I was speaking with a guy named Jason. I don't know if he's a scammer or not, but lets just say he is. The thing that I liked about him was that he wasn't sending me hundred and one messages and asking me why I read his messages and not respond. I didn't need to respond to him right away and I didn't need to speak to him everyday. I wasn't growing attached to him or anything, but he was someone I was able to tolerate. Specs: Chinese - came here when he was young  Age: 45 Parents live in North York, but he lives in Kingston Has a 19 year old son Was married long time ago, but his wife left him Let me just say he looks REALLY good for a 45 year old. I asked him about his skin regimen, he said essence.. Which is something a friend also suggested for hydrated and glowing skin. But honestly, I was getting bored of this conversation. It's not really going anywhere and I didn't want to entertain. So, I suggested we meet up. He said no because of Covid nu...

 Sooo.. I took my shot with my Crush Trainer, aka just "Trainer" now. During one of my training sessions, he told me how he wasn't invited to his family's Christmas party, because he is not vaccinated. So, I threw it out there that we should go for drinks. He said he was busy that weekend *maybe that was a hint*, but I wasn't asking for that weekend anyways, because I was busy. He then said tell me what you're holiday plans are, but after this set and never brought it up again. *maybe that was a hint*.  But since I put it out there already, today, I thought I would give it a chance. I am actually not sure if he goes out with his clients, but I know he goes out with members at the gym. Anyways, that is besides the point. He went from Crush Trainer to Trainer. Should he ask me out, would I say yes? Probably.. But am I holding my breath? No... Will I be a little bit more nonchalant with my training? Who knows? I am not really disappointed, but I am sad that he di...

During the holidays, I always believe in the Christmas magic. That is why I have been watching 2 holiday movies a day. All these holiday movies have one thing in common. The girl and the guy always find love! Why is that? Hallmark puts on rose coloured glasses and makes everything so rosie and optimistic. The main characters who do not believe in love always end up finding love in these movies.  But how about me??? I believe in love and yet I can't find it. Sigh. I don't have the balls to tell Crush Trainer that I like him. I think about calling Weedman or Youngin and the thought of them makes me cringe (not so much Weedman). Youngin is still probably going no where in life. He is now in his 30s and still living with his mom. Just even talking to him, I want to punch myself for inviting him back into my life. He is what we call an instant regret. Weedman, there is nothing really wrong with him. He have good conversation, on paper he is what I want in a guy. But I feel/felt that...

Sooo.. this is the same guy as "Another Scammer - I need to teach a Master Class" . Instead of writing about it, I have decided to post our screen shots. The guy who lives at Spadina Subway station, who is learning Astro Chemistry through his relatives (pt 2). Background - so this guy doesn't want to meet until we develop an online relationship. I don't know how many ways I can say no, I am not going to waste my time developing a virtual relationship. I thought I would see how long this would last and I would say, 3 days is long enough.  There were a lot of misunderstandings and miscommunications, I don't understand his logic. I told him I was Korean, but that I was raised here and then he asks if I am a half blood? What the fuck is that? Just speaking with him my frustrations grew because I had no idea what he was talking about or referring to. Sometimes this Chinese fob makes sense and other times, I have no fucking idea what he is trying to say. To him, because...

 OMG I think I need a life! Or a hobby, I am having way too much fun with these Chinese scammers... Stats: Lives Downtown Toronto 7 Spadina Rd, Toronto  Studying Astrochemistry Went to university in Shanghai to study Finance; currently work as a manager in finance Try Googling 7 Spading Road and see what pops up. It's the fucking Spadina subway stations! I don't know if you can see the address, but the condemned building next door is 9 Spadina Rd. Omg our conversations are just confusing. Mainly because he is from mainland China and he doesn't know what he's saying OR maybe he does and he just wants to confuse me. I just asked him if he has been going to U of T he says, "I seldom(ly) go" he asks his relatives. How are you fucking learning about Astrochemistry by asking his fucking relatives? Is that like me asking my accounting friends about finance? Am I studying for finance then? I am finding that these scammers tend to be engineers working for oil and gas c...

 Sooo.... Apparently I am a magnet for these Chinese scammers!!! I randomly got a message on WhatsApp in Chinese. I Google translated it and it basically said "Hi Gina, I got your number from ....... I am interested in buying a property." I pretty much wrote back and was like I am not Chinese and I am not Gina. I pretty much deleted our messages as we went along because I knew I didn't want to speak with this guy, but he kept persisting.  Stats:  Chinese Lives in California Has been in the States for 3 years Apparently looking to buy a place  So I asked him if he was looking to buy a place in Toronto because he messaged a 416 number. He said housing prices in Toronto is too high... Yet, he can afford to buy a place in Cali? Assuming he's looking to buy in SF or LA? Toronto housing prices are expensive, but you can always look outside of Toronto. Anyways, he seemed shady anyways. He kept asking me what he should call me, instead of saying, "what's your name?...

 Sooo.. Apparently I am not supposed to ask out guys... Stats: Chinese Works for his uncle because his uncle is sick and the uncle only has a daughter who is still in high school Drives a Mercedes S450 Came to Canada about 5 years ago Has a sister and parents are in China One thing I admired about this guy was that he seemed to have great work ethics. He seems to work hard because he wants to provide a better life for himself, his family, and take care of his family back home. He sees it as his responsibility to take care of his parents, instead of taking care of this parents with his sister. He kept talking about a better life for him and his family, which I understand; he is in the hustle. I felt like our conversation was going well, so I thought I would suggest that we meet up. Since I have an opening this weekend, I thought, "hey why not?". My next opening in my calendar is December. The response I got back from him was, pretty much, if I was available I would have asked ...

  Wow, I didn't think I would get scammed again.... But then again when it happened, it was around this time.  "Stats": Asian Born in China Raised by Grandmother is San Francisco  Moved to Toronto earlier this year Works out at the gym 6 times a week Power Tech - Works for a wind turbine company?! The reason why I think this guy is a scammer is because of the following. He gave me his full name and his date of birth wayyyy to easily. Name Mark Teng, date of birth July 4, 1981. If this guy turns out to be a legit guy, I will obviously take this down. The way he told me his birthday was 04/07/1981, at first looking at this, I would have thought it was April 7, because that is how we write dates in North America, we write, month day year.. Everywhere else around the world writes day month year. The only reason why I realized it was July was because he told me he was a Cancer sign. I gave him my birthday, but without the year, but online it has my age, so it's easy to cal...

Since I ditched this guy for McDonalds, I felt like I was obligated to meet him this week. My lashes and nails were janky so I had to fix up before meeting him. Profile Stats: Works for a start up White (based on picture)? It was a beach picture so he looked tanned Hair His profile picture was a topless beach picture Lives in High Park This is the types of guys Kelly would NEVER swipe right for. Our conversations never got really deep, our conversations were very service level. The way he speaks, I thought he was actually Crush Trainer to the point I was going to message Crush Trainer and say, "if you are fucking with me I am going to kill you!" But on the other hand, Crush Trainer doesn't have time to fuck around like that. One thing I should have asked for is a more recent pictures. I remember a few years ago, I swiped right on a guy who I thought was a white male with reddish hair. Once we traded pictures it turned out I was being cat-fished and it was actually a middl...

1. Chinese Fob 2. Korean Hot Dog 3. Some guy named Chris 1. This Chinese Fob was interesting... He was super needy. Wanted to talk everyday messaged me everyday. Wanted to know what I was doing every minute of the day. If I didn't message he would write a billion messages asking me if I was ok. OMGGG!!!! He also said he hasn't traveled much would love to go to Greece for his honeymoon.. He was just too needy for me. I don't know why I even swipe right on these Chinese fobs. The miscommunication is fucking annoying. Case and point the conversation. He fucking said he still lived with his family. When I copied his text he calls me a liar? And yes, his name was Sandy. But he was the bigger person and said lets stop chatting if I wasn't interested. Thank God, because he was on his way of being ghosted. 2. Korean Hot Dog - the reason why I call him that is because he brings Korean Hot Dogs to Toronto to franchise them. There is no real update on this guy. I guess he just gho...

 As mentioned before one of my friend's, Kelly and her husband are doing online dating for me. They first started with Bumble, where they met, but had no luck. Now they moved onto Coffee Meets Bagel. They have been now transferred into my care. The three potential suitors are 1. Tibetan Caterer 2. Downtown Start Up 3. Weird vibes; side note, when Crush Trainer told me he was going on a date this weekend, that crushed me! It looks like I started to write this and I stopped. Since starting this couple of things. Crush trainer didn't end up going on that date! YAY! BUT! Recently he had offered me to drive me to the airport for my business trip. He was going to come pick me up at 5 in the morning! YAY! I of course did that whole "no you don't have to", but I wasn't going to push back. So, it was set. The day of I message him at 5amET to let him know that I was ready and that I was waiting for him downstairs. He messages me back and said he was leaving the house no...

Soo.. now that things are opening up, my friends are pushing me to do online dating again, or at least get myself out there. My excuse of working has surfaced again, so this time my friend Kelly and her husband are doing the online dating for me. They met on Bumble and are now married. Since it worked for them, why not get the pros to do it? Kelly is doing a great job pretending to be me, for now she is using the Bumble app. She has been talking to three potentials. One of the potentials wanted my number for WhatsApp and I said sure. I am open to talking to anyone (I just don't like the hunt).  People ask me what my requirements are and they tell me my standards are too high! Do you know why my standards are high? It's because when a piece of shit disses me I get pissed, but when a guy meets all my criteria and disses me, I am not so mad.  Lets call this new guy Dirty Used Car Salesmen. Kelly warned me he was a three word kinda guy. Specs: Asian 42 Works for a used luxury car ...

How is everyone doing? The vaccine rollout has been successful in Canada. In Ontario we are accelerating our second doses, which means things can get back to normal! They even moved up our second phase, which means we can get self care. The first thing I did when that announcement came out was I booked my eyelash appointment, pedi, and facial. Everything on my face has been suffering since the pandemic. Pre-pandemic I only got lashes done on special occasions. During the pandemic when selfcare opened I only got my lashes done (no mani/pedi). I didn't get the lashes done for anyone in particular, just for me because I had to see my face everyday. Since things are headed in the right direction, I am ready to get back out there again! Let me fill you in about Weedman. I haven't seen Weedman since May. When we were supposed to hook up last, he hurt his back. He then cancelled again because his back wasn't better. I told him to message me when his back was better and I brought u...

 So, I continue to see Weedman, but because it is physical, there are no emotional attraction towards him. Instead, there is an emotional attraction towards my trainer, who is often referred to as Crush Trainer (not to be mistaken by Douche Bag Mike and Wall Fuck Trainer). But obviously my relationship with Crush Trainer is a forced relationship, I pay him to meet me, so we are not exactly friends.... Just crushing on the side. Stats on Crush Trainer: 9 years younger from my real age Seems to have his shit together drivers standard (has a newer model of my car) rides a motorcycle (HOT) reads stunt actor  is into WWII, even though it's more on the war/battalion side while I am interested in the Nazi and Holocaust side mature - looks young, but he is mature When I had my initial call for an assessment to work with a physio trainer, I knew I wanted my Crush Trainer; not because I thought he was cute, but because I have seen him with his clients. He is a mature trainer who is not ...

 It's been a while since I have written anything. To give you the down and dirty here are some updates. When restrictions lifted a little Mama Jo was at it again looking for my next potential. There too many horny losers out there, so why not just keep the one that I have? Here are some of the losers I met via online during Covid: Telsa Guy - when this guy messaged Mama Jo, his online handle was BMW boy. If it was me, I would not have messaged him back. My friends know I think BMW drivers are the WORST drivers! Yes, Weedman drives a BMW, I full told him and he acknowledges. The reason why this guy's name is Tesla Guy is because ALL HE DID WAS TALK ABOUT HIS FUCKING TESLA! Even when I tried to change the conversation, it ALWAYS came back to his Tesla! So, I just ghosted him. Below is my last conversation with him. I love cars, but I don't love people bragging about their cars. Benevolent Guy -  This guy I think is a nice guy. He saves all his vacation days to volunteer, whic...