Misread Situation - Dating during Corona (Covid-19) Times Part 2 - Late and Annoyed

 In my previous post I mentioned how I had a great time with Weedman (refer to Dating during Corona (Covid-19) Times Part 2 - Late and Annoyed), which I did. But the thing I failed to mention was that we ended up sleeping together after the first date. This was my first time sleeping with a guy after the first date. We had a GOOD evening!!!! The next morning he kissed me goodbye and told me to message him when I was done church. But he messaged messaged me first, which I thought was a good sign. He also told me that it was production time, so he was going to be busy, which was fine. Prior to Covid, I used to be super busy, to the point where I had my own assistant. The messages were coming in far and wide in between, which I understood because when I was busy at work, I was only able to message guys twice a night. 

On Monday, I had a bad day. I semi told him about it, but all he could say was "can your brothers help?". After that there was no follow up, no check in to see if I was ok. That whole week he would message me once or twice a day, which I just chalked it up to him being busy. I was getting obsessive, checking to see when he logged onto Whatsapp and wondering why he wasn't messaging me. Why we weren't having conversations like we used to. I was not liking what was happening to me. I took the advice of my friends, I went back onto the apps so I can actually date and not just focus on him. I shouldn't put all my eggs in this one basket, as Mama Jo would say, I was "dickmatized".

I decided to go back on the app and now I have a date tomorrow! Whether the Weedman messages me back, I don't really care anymore. I have to move on. If he wasn't into me he should just tell me or just ghost instead of stringing me along. I have learned my lesson from this one. I will give him once more chance, but if something doesn't change then bye bye Weedman.