Lies, Lack of Effort, Broken Promises and Should`ve Known Better

Out of anger, I was going to write about every intimate thing, but to be fair we did have good times. I do think he is a good guy, but perhaps I wasn't the person for him.

So, I just decided to write about the Broken Promises, Lies, and the Lack of Effort and also, some signs that this was coming and that he wasn't all that he seemed, under Should've Known Better.

Lies
- I am his best friend
- I am the second more important person in his life after his family
- He doesn't own his house - I work in real estate, not too sure why he would lie about that, the title is under his parent's name.

Lack of Effort
- no present for Christmas (understandable because we were only dating for a month), but didn't even go out for dinner
- Forgot my birthday
- Didn't make up for my birthday
- Said he was going to quit smoking (didn't)
- Said he was going to quit drinking (didn't)

 Broken Promises
- When we make plans I will never cancel - since the day when he was sick (understandable), he canceled at least 5 more times because he was too tired.
- Told him when he says he's going to call or text he better do it - failed MANY times- I will cook for you next week
- He had also offered to clean my car on a specific day, but that didn't happen
- He was working on a project that his money was tied in, so I paid most of the outing bills, he said situation would get better in January, then February and would start paying for the bill again..

Should`ve Known Better
- He did not want to go outside of Mississauga
- Did not bother to dress to impress
- Didn't know whether to open up his own restaurant, start his own construction company
- When I asked him if he wanted to go to NY with me, he didn't sound that excited.
- Always complained about being tired and or was sick all the time

He did do some really sweet things, but what's the point in writing about those!? It's not like I'm going to get back together with him.

Days leading up to the break up, I was not sleeping well, grinding my teeth and having dreams about breaking up with him. Again, I had prayed to God to give me a sign, I`m pretty sure the lack of calling me and dreams about breaking up were my signs. But I chose to ignore it.

We had a great Valentines Day and that would be the last day I met up with him. We were supposed to meet the night before, but he canceled on me, so we met the next day.

We went to a bar where we had our first date. So I thought it was sweet, then went to a bar where we always hung out to play darts, had one drink there and then went to the Woodbine Tracks (lost all our money). We had a great time, but the following week was the beginning of the end....

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